this guy says it better than I did

On the First Things blog, Spengler says what I've been trying to say here all along (only he says it more lucidly and concisely):

"It is right and proper for the Jews to desire that all the world should worship YHWH in their own way, and inconsistent of them to object to the same desire on the part of Christians. But the critical point is that the dispute over the Easter prayer is a quarrel within Israel. Jews should worry only if and when Christians cease to pray for them, for that would signify that Christians had forgotten the root onto which the wild olive branches are grafted."

Here is the entire post. It is well worth reading.